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What Girls Always Notice on a Date!

Posted on March 6th, 2008 by admin

Unlike men, who don’t notice a great deal too much, women are a lot sharper on a date. They put in a lot of effort, and they expect their date to look spruced up and primped for them. So what are the things that a girl notices on a date? Men, you might just be surprised.

Cleanliness

You definitely need to be clean. Women like guys who can groom themselves. Even if you sport a stubble, it should look like every strand of hair exists to accentuate your face. Clean hands, crisp clothes, and a fresh face. And no bad breath or body odour. No girl would ever like that! Maybe a few kinky ones, but definitely not on a date. In a restaurant.

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Ogling other women

You may have done everything right, but this one wrong move can be a killer! There’s nothing more insulting for a woman than her date craning his neck to see other women now and then when you’re out on a date. Remember, all eyes on the woman. You can ogle at all the beautiful women when you’re with the guys. On a date, just focus on her, if you do want to impress.

Attire

Brands are one thing, but women definitely notice the way you dress. A Gucci shirt looks good, but untucked and crumpled on a formal date? Don’t think so dress for the occasion. Be pleasing to her eyes, and don’t ever go overboard. A clean shirt or a suit is the best thing to wear when you’re out at a great restaurant in the middle of paradise. And yeah, do take her to a great place.

Your conversational skills

Girls want a guy who knows how to keep his woman happy. So are you a smooth talker? Do you stutter and splutter and run out of things to say, half way through the dinner and resort to “so you say something… no, no, you say… to cover the fact that you have nothing to talk about? That’s not good. A woman wants to be with someone who knows to talk, and talk well. Yup, back when you were in tenth grade, backstreet boys were hot stuff! Now, it’s Hitch or a Simon Cowell.

What you can do

How far can you go for your date? What can you do to pamper her? Flowers and sparkling wine are great starters. But can you call back your waiter and ask him for more flowers on your table? Or perhaps, a white candle? Anything else? A woman wants to test how far a man would be willing to go for her. Of course, subconsciously. So pamper her. She can’t make up her mind about which dessert to pick, order three of them. Try it. It definitely works. Tell her to take a bit off all of them. She can have what she wants, and the waiter can take back the rest. If you have to be her king, treat her like the queen she deserves to be.

Labels!

Girls love labels. It’s a sign anyways, isn’t it? If you can pamper yourself, you definitely can pamper her. Go figure about big brands. But the biggest names don’t come cheap. Senor D’Orsi charges over 3 million a suit and still makes just fifty suits a year, but that’s never going to hurt. May be just your wallet. A wee bit, you big, rich boy!

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What Girls Never Notice!

Your thoughts

No woman is mind reader. Whew! Thank god for that. Or you may not last a few minutes into the date, would you? You little perv!

Your package!

That sock in boxers on the beach didn’t help you, why would something dwelling deep inside your pants make a difference on a restaurant? Unless you’re competing with giant gonzales on a prick level. She may notice your physique but your package is a far fetched thought.

The real you!

Women do know that you’re being all that, and extra sweet just to impress them. So do be nice and courteous. You may be nervous, but put it behind your back. And unless you bring out the real you, the girls would never really know who you are! And she may not actually go out with you again.

Your good looks!

You may be a real good looker, but most women say that they would prefer personality over looks any day. The ugly good natured men can thank god now. So you may be really dashing, but unless you can be a great date, your good looks would be forgotten in no time, even if was noticed in the first place.

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